"How do I get a record contract?"
That's something that I used to google all the time when I was a kid. I had a dream of being an internationally recognised singer, something which many used to attribute to my vanity and love for fame (but that's a whole other story about the entertainment industry). Since then, I had become obsessed with music and have been training as a singer since elementary school. I also spent three years studying music and the entertainment industry once I finished high school, and went through the processes of recording a song, filming a music video and gigging with my band. Although things were short lived, I got an insight to the industry through both my education and friends that are now professional musicians.
Since then, a lot of people have asked me about the music industry but most of the questions I get are in regards to the Kpop industry. There are a lot of false stories and rumours out there, mostly due to the fact that the entertainment companies are very meticulous with their marketing and are very good at manipulating the psychologically relationships between the consumer and their artists. It also doesn't help that a lot of people who are interested in this field are both young and inexperienced. For this reason, I decided to write a post about the industry (both in Australia and Korea) as I know it. I specific Australia because I'm unsure about the practices in other western countries but can only assume that they are similar.
The Australian perspective is written through my first and second hand experience, while the Korean perspective is written through my research using news reports, interviews, fan/trainee accounts (which will be indicated as I must emphasise that many many fan accounts are untrue or biased) and personal observations.
And with that, we will begin!
Personally, I am finally loving f(x)'s comeback. In the past, although I enjoyed watching the girls on variety shows, I never quite got their music. It was all so boppy and, while that's good on occasion, always left me with a feeling of disappointment.
In their previous comeback with Pink Tape, they did an art film that was perfect. I loved it but, unfortunately, they then released Rum Pum Pum Pum which, although was a good song, all just sounded like Electric Shock all over again. It was no different from everything else that they and numerous other girl groups had done before and definitely did not make use of the five girl's potential.
F(x) has a lot of fans but they seemed to always get the short end of the stick when compared with artists like SNSD, EXO and (of course) big sunbae TVXQ. For me, Red Light broke this streak and definitely gave us something to be excited about! They went back to the artistic glory of Pink Tape and brought of a darker, haunting concept. It's quickly becoming the trend in both kpop and fashion now and, even though F(x) is a little late, I will never complain about it.
In the end, the choices that we make are and need to be selfish. You're living your own life and, as I said before, you are the only constant. It doesn't matter what other people want you do to or if you want to follow your friends to college. Things are scary but, unless we dare ourselves to make the plunge, we'll only be forever trapped in a situation that doesn't make us happy.
When I first heard the news of Park Bom's 'drug smuggling' scandal, it shocked me beyond belief. I hadn't yet read the article yet but, knowing that kind of person Bom is, it all seemed ridiculous. The idea that celebrities may dabble in different types of drugs is not foreign to me at all. I'm not the kind of fan who lives in fallacy - people aren't perfect and, while some of what people do may not be forgivable to me (such as DMTN's Daniel Choi who, personally, I don't think will be returning to the public eye for quite a while), I would not delude myself into thinking that everyone is a good person.
However, Park Bom has always been a different case for us. Although there is talk about her alleged plastic surgery habits, the fact has remained that she is an incredibly bright and bluntly honest girl. As a Blackjack, I knew that well and I'm sure that many other Kpoppers will acknowledge that about her too.
And so, I was highly relieved when I read the article. Personally, I feel that it was purposefully blown out of proportion by people trying to fuel fan wars. Aside from it being a case from four years ago, the term 'smuggling' was also inappropriately used as she wasn't sneaking the medication in but rather receiving it through her family, the reason being that her illness was kept a secret from everyone - YG Entertainment, her members and her fans. The 'drugs' in question turned out to be medication she was prescribed while still living in the states in order to treat her depression and, possibly, PTSD (this is just my belief and how I read Yang Hyun Suk's open letter).
For this reason, this entire scandal should not exist. The case is something that Bom desperately wanted to keep in the dark from everyone. She works hard every day to do what she loves, to live even amongst all the hate she receives and to show her fans a bright image. She always tries to inspire her fans with her joyousness and, I guess, for her to have such a dark past really burdened her. For the same reason people choose not to bring up Sandara's history, the same courtesy should be given to Bom.
Instead, there are apparently still outcries from the public saying that she should have faced jail time for this. Perhaps I am a more lax person when it comes to scandals like this, but I simply don't understand. To me, I feel that people are just using this as an excuse to bring Bom and the rest of 2NE1 down. They are not a group without their haters, but we all know I think fan wars are stupid and immature.
The fact is that the case was dropped four years ago for the reason that adequate proof was given that the 'drugs' were used for medication purposes and not for recreation. Since finding out about that, Bom hasn't been abusing her power as a celebrity to keep receiving the amphetamines but rather switching to a legal Korean alternative. It's so utterly clear that she is innocent here.
I haven't dated a hundred men, but I like to think that I've figuratively had to kiss a few frogs. Although I hadn't found my prince yet, I did get a general of idea of who my prince would be (and it's not Jiyong). Here's my two cents about who I would consider my perfect man.
For some unknown reason, this is a really big thing for me. I don't mean that I want a man to have graduated Harvard and that, if he didn't, he isn't 'up to standard'. However, I find that since I feel that my own intelligence is my stronger point, I want a man who is just as book smart or smarter so that we can either converse about the same things or I can learn from him. I don't care if someone can recite a text book to me, but someone who is capable of deep analytical thoughts would be amazing.
Mature and preferably older than me
I've dated younger than me most of the time (not by a lot, max is just over a year) but I'm now at the point in life where I want someone older. I'm not judging based on age, but rather the idea that someone older will be more mature and ready to be serious with things. I don't enjoying partying, clubbing or drinking so anyone with that kind of lifestyle is out for me. I prefer someone who has a stable job and career.
Good sense of style
Please. I don't intend for him to dress like G-Dragon, but to be presentable and to care about your own appearance is such a big thing for me. Don't spend hours on it and there's no need to be 'vain' but put a bit of thought into it. If you can't do this, then please let me be your stylist because I actually love doing that.
Genuinely kind hearted
This is massive for me and should probably be higher up on the list. So many of us girls go through high school wanting someone 'cute' and 'funny', but never have we really stopped to think that we want someone seriously nice. Stopping to help someone on the streets, donating to charity or doing someone for a good cause - all of that goes a long way for me.
Responsible and caring
Respect my family and my upbringing
While I don't come from a super strict upbringing, I can say that we're fairly conservative. I'm sick and tired of 'men' who can't handle my family and yet think it's okay to bad mouth them in front of me. My family means the world to me and, if you don't treat them well, then you're going to the curb.
Supportive
I'm an ambitious kind of person. I want strong wants and desires. While someone can support me emotionally the whole way, I'm essentially an independent kind of person and I want a life for myself too. Personally, I need someone who understands that and will support me in my endeavours, not tear my dreams down.
StyleNanda also has a make up range called 3 Concept Eyes which I found out they are stocking in a Korean make up store in the CBD, so I'll be buying some things from there soon and will do a review for everyone.
Anyone who knows me (and you don't even have to know me well) knows that I am a massive fangirl, especially when it comes to kpop and kdrama. As much as I love watching other shows as well, my favourite being Pretty Little Liars and the Haleb pairing, there is something about the Kdrama hero who always manages to capture your heart.
And so, here it is; Top 5 Men of Kdrama. Or, at least, the top five for tonight.
Cha Jae Wan (Hotel King)
I didn't know anything about Lee Dongwook aside from what is on Roommates and so went into Hotel King with absolutely no expections. However, his portray of the serious and broody Cha Jae Wan (or Jayden) has made me absolutely fall for him. While a lot of dramas have 'cute' male leads, I love Jae Wan for his undeniable masculinity - he's a ruthless businessman, he passionately and wholeheartedly loves Mo Ne and he's the stony, quiet type (which I love). Aside from that, we know that I love myself a misunderstood bad boy, and Jae Wan is exactly that along with his dark past of possibly being a murderer (albeit in self defence).
Park Heung Soo and Go Nam Soon (School 2013)
These boys go together because there is absolutely no way for me to choose between them. Park Heung Soo (Kim Woobin) is your typical bad boy from school again - the bully that everyone is afraid of but, in a nice twist of events here, the one that people should actually be afraid of is Nam Soon (Lee Jong Suk) who broke Heung Soo's leg.
It was actually through School 2013 that I came to love both of these actors, because I thought their portrayal of the delicate relationship between the two was so perfect. In the end though, don't we all want to go on (at least) a date with the cheeky Nam Soon and the rough around the edges Heung Soo?
City Hunter is probably (and I think will forever be) my favourite role of Lee Minho. Why? Because the poor guy is finally out of a school uniform and playing someone with actual depth. As a drama, the initial setting up of the story was brilliant - I'm all for the whole espionage and government corruption plot line.
As for Yoon Sung, he really caught my eye when they first showed him in Thailand. Although he's bright and cheeky, he has a darkness and maturity about him that only comes forth from a really painful past. Throughout the whole drama, the tension between him and his adopted father is beautifully portrayed, even up to the ending. For me, Yoon Sung is the kind of character that you fall in love with over and over but, in the end, you really just want the guy to be happy already.
Fact is that I loved Seo Joon's character a lot more than In-Ha as a youngster (loved him as a father though). I'm probably just a sucker for an artistic guy, but as soon as I found out that Joon was a photographer, I knew he was the man for me. It also made me laugh how the hair style changed Jang Geun Suk's appearance so much.
Although the kiss scene was odd for me (Am I the only one who thought the Prince soundtrack made it seem almost... perverted?) I was really drawn towards his awkwardness as he gradually fell for Jung Han Na (also known as pretty Yoona who resembles my niece). Similar to how I always fall for Geun Suk's characters, I found that I hated him at first but grew to love him.
I tend to put too much thought and worry into the first post (almost as much as I do deciding on my blog name and template considering that it is already a minute past midnight) so I figured that I would skip all of that and jump right in.
Something people tend to forget, which will forever astound me, is that clothing is not merely what you put on your back.
Just like a designer has to take into account type, kerning, colour selection, stock paper, style and all that in order to properly communicate to their audience, dressing yourself is no different. There are a lot of girls who roll themselves out of bed in the morning with little to no thought as to what they are wearing. While people think that can show people that they are 'too cool to care', I honestly think that it just makes you look sloppy.
You don't need to wear Chanel every day, but putting in consideration as to how people perceive you will move your forward leaps and bounds. As someone who often places herself below others in terms of success, intelligence and talent, I will always (and I mean always) attempt to make up for that in hard work and good impressions.
For that, I would never walk about Forever New. From the quality of their fabrics to their designs, they move beyond the tacky trends of short micro skirts and embellished nightclub dresses to ensure that we look like modern princesses sans the tiara.
With the reminder that these images do not belong to me and are used purely for reference purposes, I want to introduce everyone to Forever New's Sugar Blossom collection. I'm certain that it's been out for a while but, with all of the flowing fabrics, soft colours and lace, it reminds me of the reason I had fallen in love with the chain store in the first place. I love dresses, especially if they look just as stunning on the streets as they do during a romantic beach side stroll.
My personal favourite is the Annika Embroidered Bodice Dress (see below) that's available at the store for 200$. Although I admit that Forever New isn't the most affordable for students such as myself, they do have sales quite frequently and, from my experience, make up for the cost with really great customer service and quality. Remember, you get what you pay for and, frankly, I'd rather pay more for a lovely dress and a sweet check out girl than be rudely harassed by the underpaid, 'couldn't care less' girls.